- Saying “yes”, when really you want to say “no”.
- Saying “no”, because you are afraid others will think you are crazy, if you say yes.
- Thinking about others first.
- Thinking about others only.
- Taking that job, because it looks good on your resume.
- Not taking that job, because it seems too frivolous.
- Dramatizing a mistake.
- Pushing away that nagging feeling of discomfort.
- Saying “yes”, because you are afraid to hurt someone else’s feelings with a “no”.
- Saying “no”, because you are afraid to fail.
- Getting lost in re-re-re-thinking things through.
- Not getting started, because you are afraid to fail.
- Judging yourself for not getting started as a pathetic failure.
- Dwelling in self deprecating thoughts.
- Shelving your dream as “oh, well, it was just a nice dream”.
- Doing something you love doing. Then making a mistake and giving up.
- Doing something you hate doing. And keeping doing it.
- Getting stuck in “he shouldn’t have done this to me.”
- Believing you have to go to that party.
- Believing you can’t change careers anymore.
- Pretending you are happy, while feeling miserable.
- Looking for what is not there and dismissing what is there.
- Craving attention of others.
- Craving approval of others.
- Needing permission of others.
- Trying to be perfect.
- Telling yourself you are not good enough.
- Telling yourself that this will never work.
- Comparing yourself to others.
- Trying to be everything to everyone.
- Dismissing your anger.
- Down talking your achievements and exaggerating your mistakes.
- Driving that car, because everyone else does.
- Believing you are a victim.
- Believing you have no choice.
- Fighting reality.
- Making a mistake and covering it up.
- Making a mistake and blaming others.
- Mindlessly watching television.
- Drowning yourself in “it should have been different” when the result is not as expected.
- Blaming yourself for not reaching that result.
- Making that different result equal “I am not good enough”.
- Forgetting what joy feels like.
- Numbing out.
- Making “Oh, well, I’ll realise this dream of mine after I retired.” your mantra.
- Adopting a “whatever” approach to life.
- Building a wall around yourself.
- Doing something, because you think they expect you to do so.
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