Success is not final,
failure is not fatal:
it is the courage to continue that counts.
~  Winston Churchill

 

Do you feel as if the earth stops turning when you found out you made a mistake?

And do you believe you just wasted the only chance you got?

Are you avoiding things because you’re afraid you might fail?

And then get mad at yourself for not trying?

Are you rereading that email 50 times before you hit send?

And do you imagine how they’ll open your email and think it’s not good enough?

Do you say to yourself “mistakes are ok” a thousand times a day?

Yet deep down still feeling petrified to make even the tiniest one?

Do you keep replaying what went wrong in your mind for days?

Leaving you feeling miserable and small?

Do you *secretly* feel jealous of people who just do their thing – mistakes and all?

And are you harsh on yourself because they move on, while you just can’t shake off even a small mistake?

Are you convinced they’ll think you’re a loser when you make a mistake?

And that they’ll be saying to each other that you haven’t got what it takes?

Do you find yourself procrastinating when you need to write that report?

Yet thinking tirelessly about it, racking your mind to find that right angle, those right words?

 

Then this is something for you.

 

Failure Frenzy?

Shake off the failure drama

in your mind.

(And start really thriving.)


What?

  • 4 calls
  • 3 months of dedicated email support
  • 2 people – just you and me
  • 1 focus – you

 

What will you get out of it?

  • You’ll identify the root cause of your failure frenzy.  You’ll learn how to pinpoint exactly why you can’t shake off even those little mistakes.
  • You’ll explore how you are involuntarily playing a role in creating your failure frenzy– and what you can do to change that.
  • You’ll learn how to inject a good dose of genuine confidence in your life, not just once but consistently.
  • You’ll learn how to spot failure drama while it’s in the making, miles away but heading towards you.
  • You’ll learn how to feel the fear of potential failure and do it anyway.
  • You’ll learn how to deal with mistakes and failures in a graceful, elegant and powerful way.
  • You’ll learn how to use failures to your advantage to create a life that makes your heart sing and soul soar.

 

Why is this different?

We’re diving deep and going for the root cause of your failure frenzy.

So we’re not only discussing how to deal with failure when it happens.

But we’re gonna dig deeper.

We’re discussing why you can’t seem to shake off those failures.

We’re discussing fear of wasting the only chance you’ve got.

We’re discussing fear of not being able to control what they think about you.

We’re discussing fear of disappointing.

We’re discussing fear of appearing weak and incompetent.

We’re discussing the shoulds, the can’ts and mile high expectations.

We’re discussing the standards of perfection.

And the unexpected bonus of imperfection.

We’re not gonna fix you.

That would just be a waste of time.

Because there’s nothing wrong with you.

Even though that might be exactly what you’re telling yourself – “there’s something wrong with me.”

Using those mistakes as proof that you’re a hopeless failure.

And that nagging worry as proof that you haven’t got what it takes.

We’re gonna have a good honest look at what you are telling yourself about yourself and your life, about what you believe you should and shouldn’t do, about what you believe you can and can’t do.

Because as long as we keep believing the same thing, we’ll keep doing the same things.

And so we need to fix that.

What you are telling yourself.

Not you.

 

This is not for you if …

  • you are not willing to have a good honest look at yourself.
  • you expect a 5 minute quick fix.

 

But if you are willing

to have a good honest look at yourself

and take many tiny baby steps,

then this is gonna pay off.

So much more than you’d even anticipated.

 

You’ll learn stuff you’ll be able to apply for the rest of your life.

You’ll learn stuff you’ll be able to apply in all areas of your life.

 

You’ll be more peaceful and relaxed, grounded and confident.

You’ll feel much more connected and fulfilled.

You’ll be more creative, playful and fun.

 

You’ll start to really thrive and do your thing in the world.

 

How does this work concretely?

I believe that

Lasting Change =  Fresh Perspective + Massive Tiny Action

 

The fresh perspective needs action to mean something in our day-to-day world.

To become real.  Tangible.

The action cements the fresh perspective.

The action inspires more action.

And in turn, the action needs the fresh perspective to come from a place of grounded self-worth.

Otherwise it is just a random spur of the moment.

An accidental thing.

Lasting just as long as we can manage to squeeze out the last drop of willpower to keep going.

Together they interact and reinforce each other.

Create lasting change.

Coming from within.

Sustainable.  Inspired.

 

That’s why the Mentoring Immersion allows for both.

 

There’s the 4 calls to explain concepts and introduce tools.  For zooming out, looking back on where you came from and looking forward to where you wanna go.

 

There’s the implementation time inbetween the calls where you apply what you’ve learned.  This is where you get to practise the hands-on tools, uncover the hidden root causes, and profoundly shift the way you look at yourself and your life.  One tiny – yet meaningful – step at a time.

 

There’s the unlimited weekly email support where all the day-to-day reflection, coaching and mentoring is done.

Gentle, yet direct and to the point.

Focused.

And always holding you to what is possible.

 

This is the safe space

where there is just you and me.

 

This is where you get to report back on the tiny action steps you’re taking, what works and what doesn’t, valuing the action and not letting your self-worth depend on the result.

This is where I offer up fresh ways of looking at yourself and your life, fresh ways of looking at things, fresh ways of doing things.

This is the safe space where there are no shoulds or things that are supposed to be said or done.

This is where failures are as valuable as successes.

This is where there’s no right or wrong.

This is where you get to re-discover how strong, creative, smart, fun, interesting, charming, mesmerizing, beautiful you really are.

 

Together they form a foundational basis

to help you shake off the failure frenzy.

 

This is what the scheme looks like:

*  Pre-work  - a set of sizzling questions to reflect and re-connect with yourself
*  Day 1 –  start of the Mentoring Immersion with our 1st call
*  Day 15 – 2nd call
*  Day 45 – 3rd call
*  Day 90 – 4th call and end of the Mentoring Immersion

Inbetween calls, you can fully make use of the unlimited email support – Monday through Friday.

The nature of the email conversation gives you the freedom to do the work when it suits you best.  You can organise yourself the way you want and respond when most convenient to you.  It’s like having a conversation, but with built in time to allow you to ponder, to take action and pick up the conversation again when it works best for you.

 

So what’s your investment?

  • 997 EUR
  • The full amount needs to be paid upfront.  To check the current exchange rate in your currency, check out this handy online currency converter.

 

And what’s your time investment?

  • The calls –  allow for 50 minutes for each call
  • The email support -  this depends from person to person and from week to week.  Allow for 1-2 hrs a week if you really wanna take full advantage of the email mentoring.

 

That might seem like a lot of time (especially when you’ve got a lot on your plate).

Yet setting time apart for yourself is what you need to start making lasting changes.

It’s a clear statement to yourself that you wanna make a change.

It’s like running a marathon.  We won’t be able to run a marathon by only running 5 minutes a day, though we’ll no doubt benefit from the 5 minute physical exercise.  If we want to run a marathon, we’ll need to reserve chunks of time to gradually build up the physical and cardio we need to run that marathon.

And it’s the same here.

5 minutes a day are no doubt beneficial, but if we wanna make lasting changes, we need to invest time in ourselves to immerse ourselves in an abundance of fresh ways to look at ourselves and our lives, to take plenty of tiny actions, to work through what’s holding us back and re-connect with who we truly are, our dreams and desires, our talents and strenghts, our voice and style, our confidence, our grounded trust in ourselves.

 

Sounds good?

Shoot me an email at an@ownyourlifecoaching.com and we’ll take it from there.

We’ll schedule the calls, arrange the payment details and make sure you get the Failure Frenzy Detox Mentoring Immersion pre-work pack.

 

Got more questions?

Can’t go wrong here!  So shoot me an email at an@ownyourlifecoaching.com

I love hearing from you.

 

Not sure yet?

Make sure you sign up to be kept updated on the availability for the Mentoring Immersion.  Plus, you’ll get free fresh perspectives and tips to live up to your potential and do your thing in the world.  Unapologetically.

 

Create a life that feels good

on the inside,

not just one that looks good

on the outside.




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